Monday, June 30, 2008

June Ends and Half Way Through the Year

Nicole reminded us that her summer vacation passes the halfway point this week and we note that 2008 is at the midpoint as well. One of Mom's favorite writers, C. S. Lewis, has a thoughtful perspective on the wonder we feel at the swift passage of time: he says,

"If you are really a product of a material universe, how it is you don't feel at home there? Do fish complain of the sea for being wet? Or, if they did, would that fact itself not strongly suggest that they had not always been, or would not always be, purely aquatic creatures? Notice how we are perpetually surprised at Time. ('How time flies! Fancy John being grown-up and married! I can hardly believe it!') In heaven's name, why? Unless, indeed, there is something in us which is not temporal?"

So when you feel the amazement of how time flies, consider that an affirmation that we are really eternal spirits feeling somewhat like fish out of water as we experience Time during our mortal sojourn.

June has brought the usual garden chores and delights. The peonies have come and gone but the dahlia roots Mom planted are starting to bloom and Dad's tomato patch holds the promise of fruit shortly. Dad has been busy each Saturday with maintenance chores -- Mom was startled to hear footsteps on the roof while she was upstairs. It was Dad checking the gutters (which need work) and the satellite dish (either it or the maple blocking its signal needs to be moved). Dad's walking along the edge and the peak of the roof makes Mom very nervous and she thinks it's time to call in the professionals for these jobs.

Nicole has been busy at church filling in for all the vacationing music people. She has played the organ in sacrament meeting and the piano in Relief Society and Primary. Her BYU and piano performance friend Mandy, who has been doing an internship at the Capitol, stayed with us for a couple of nights. Mandy, Ashley, and Nicole spent an afternoon tubing down the river at Harper's Ferry. The only imperfection of the day was when the car wouldn't start when it was time to come home. Dad did a quick rescue trip and thereafter installed a needed new starter in the car.

Wendy's piano students had their recital earlier in the month and Reed was one of the performers. He looked very handsome in his blue blazer and we were proud of how well he played his pieces.

With everyone else in the family, we are praying for Grandma Johnson's well-being. Since her fall a little over a week ago, she has been in the hospice area of her residential care facility. Fortunately, she is still alert and enjoys calls from the family. On July 20, she will be 92. We are grateful for her faithful example and testimony and the love she always expresses for all of us. She often says, "You tell [fill in the blank -- Wendy or Brett or Holly or Lisa or Sara or Nicole] that I love them."

Mom was invited to speak in sacrament meeting this month. This is a rare opportunity in our ward -- and since most of you missed it, her talk outline is attached.

Introduction:
  • Gaining a testimony is one of the individual responsibilities bear to merit eternal life.
  • Elder Dallin H. Oaks said, "A personal testimony is fundamental to our faith. Consequently, the things we must do to acquire, strengthen, and retain a testimoney are vital to our spiritual life."
  • Having a testimony is necessary for salvation: D&C 76:51 tells us that after we have received the ordinances of the Gospel, the requirement we must all fulfill to have eternal life is to have a testimony. "They are thy who received the testimony of Jesus...."
What is a Testimony?

C.S. Lewis tells us what a testimony is not. "A vague religion - all about feeling God in nature, and so - is so attractive. It is all thrills and no work; like watching waves from the beach. But you will not get to Newfoundland by studying the Atlantic, and you will not get eternal life simply by feeling the Presence of God in flowers or music."

"A testimony of the gospel is a personal witness borne to our souls by the Holy Ghost that certain facts of eternal significance are true and that we know them to be true. Such facts include the nature of the Godhead and our relationship to its three members, the effectiveness of the Atonement and the reality of the Restoration." (Elder Dallin H. Oaks. Ensign, May 2008, 26).

Obtaining and Retaining a Testimony
  • We don’t gain so much as recover and remember what we all knew in the Pre-existence.
  • Desire is key – need to want it.
  • “The necessary procedure is: study, think, pray, and do” (Pres. Kimball 72).
  • Elder Oaks: “Desire, sincere prayer. Not a passive thing but a process where we are expected to do something.” [We all pay the same price for our testimonies – no discounts, sales, or bargains].
  • “A testimony is a fragile thing . .. you have to hold on to it by study, and by faith, and by prayer. That which you possess today will not be yours tomorrow unless you do something about it. Your testimony is either going to increase or it is going to diminish, depending on you” (President Lee 43)
My Testimony:

I know that our Heavenly Father lives and we can trust in Him.

I know that Jesus is the Christ and that He atoned for our sins and made possible His Plan of Happiness. I know He is ready, willing and anxious to help us in our needs and troubles.

I know that Joseph Smith was God's prophet of the Restoration. I know President Thomas S. Monson is our prophet today.

Friday, June 13, 2008

Interested in a Family Vacation?

We have been having some discussion around the dinner table about having a Johnson family vacation with Mom and Dad, children and spouses, and those very special people we never see enough of -- grandchildren.

We would like your input of what would be fun and doable for you and yours. If Mom is counting correctly, there are 24 of us now whose needs and preferences should be considered.

Among the ideas that have been put forth are to have a family vacation/reunion in 2009 in some location such as a beach house, Disney World, Disney Cruise, Nauvoo, Aspen Grove. If you have another suggestion, please make it in the comments. Please use the accompanying poll to indicate your interest.

Sunday, June 8, 2008

Celebrations and Stake Conference

Nicole spent Memorial Day weekend (and her birthday) in Colorado visiting with her friend Jeff Bullock and his family. We appreciate the kindness of the Bullock family in providing the birthday cake and celebration for her. A weekend of water skiing and boating at the family cabin was anticipated but since snowflakes were in the air, these activities were somewhat curtailed.

While Nicole was in the mountains, Ashley was visiting her friend Ryan Smith in California. Ryan's little brother Scott, age 10, was not quite sure how to deal with being displaced in his older brother's attention by this pretty new interloper. If Ryan put his arm around Ashley, David would disengage his arm. When Ryan and Ashley were in the car driving to the grandparent's house, Scott (in the back seat with his fifteen-year-old sister) pointedly declared to Ashley, "In our Church, we don't kiss until we get married." The teen aged sister rejoined, "Well, I know for a fact that [naming the brother on a mission] kissed a girl before he went on his mission!" Scott held his ground until a cell phone call to his mother settled the question. Solomon-like, Sister Smith assured Scott that "You are allowed to kiss once before you get married."

Mom and Dad dropped by Wendy's to deliver birthday wishes to her before going to the airport to pick up Nicole. One of Wendy's friends had made her favorite birthday cake for her -- chocolate with seven-minute frosting. Dad, who doesn't care for chocolate, declined the cake but Mom savored her piece and did not resist a second helping.

Our Amie celebrated her birthday on June 5th. We remember how smitten we were with our first little grandchild and how every morning it seemed like Christmas and to wake up and hurry to Wendy's and Steve's apartment in Laurel to "help Wendy" but really to cuddle and admire beautiful little Amie.

This week Mom and two other dear friends, Maria Bailey and Ann Bowler, went out to lunch at Bella Luna to honor her friend Carolyn Brammer on her birthday. All these women were in our ward when we moved here nearly twenty-nine years ago. We had a wonderful time reminiscing and sharing funny stories. Maria, who travels frequently to her home country of Peru, told of a time she had boarded her flight in Lima and as the plane started to taxi down the runway discovered she was missing her purse containing her passport, documents, credit cards, and money. In a panic, she alerted the flight attendant and expressed her distress so vehemently that the pilot turned the plane back to the gate. Her purse had become lodged on the security belt and bomb squad was there ready to dismantle her purse!

Our "birthday season" with Brian, Dad, Molly, Grandma Morris, Nicole, and Wendy in May and Amie, Brett, and Steve in June (not to mention Mother's Day and Father's Day) is nearly over. We love the cake and ice cream and getting together.

This evening we have a tired Dad recuperating after the last session of stake conference this weekend. After weeks of planning, a full day at the temple on Friday, Saturday meetings, and two sessions on Sunday, he is ready for a rest. Dad gave some fine talks and all the talks were inspiring and motivating. For the Saturday evening meeting, Nicole and Harmony White, an accomplished cellist, played a beautiful piano-cello arrangement of "I Need Thee Every Hour."

Kurt and Jennifer sent us a delightful family newsletter. We love the pictures of Kayla and Hailey who are so cute they should be stars on the Disney channel.

Holly flew to Utah to take advantage of an opportunity to take a special photography class over the weekend. Dave did a good job of getting the kids to church although Sadie's hair seemed to lack a mother's touch.








Sunday, May 25, 2008

21 Years Ago

Nicole's Birthday

Twenty one years ago today, Nicole was born. Oh, how our lives have changed as a result. Oh, what joy came into your lives. These twenty one years have flown by.

Wendy's Birthday

It is birthday season. Not only our youngest celebrates her birthday, in two more days Wendy will celebrate her 44th birthday. What a great daughter. We have truly been blessed.

Sadie the Dancer
Sadie has been enrolled in a class for three-year old budding ballerinas. On Monday, she participated in her first recital to an audience of discerning critics (moms, dads, aunts, and grandparents) who gave the performance rave reviews. Here we see Sadie with her friend Daryl Freeman. Wendy commented on how the pink tutus accentuate what cute tummies our graceful dancers have.

Ryan the Graduate
Talk about the swift passage of time -- Ryan has sped through school in what seems like the blink of an eye. Nana remembers marveling at this beautiful days-old baby boy when new mother Holly deposited him in her arms at the Salt Lake City airport. Was it really eighteen years ago? We have loved watching Ryan grow up and applauding his achievements along the way. We are so glad we were able to take him to Education Week with us those two summers. It was wonderful to have him with us on both occasions. Now he stands on the brink of adulthood and we continue to be so proud of him.

Graduation took place at Meriwether Post pavilion on Thursday, May 22 and Ryan was commended on the program for his good grades. Just so you know, he is the handsome tall one dressed in green.

Ava the Graduate

Our family abounds with academic milestones -- our Ava Gladwell deserves recognition for her achievement in graduating from kindergarten from Cache Elementary School.















Memorial Day


Tomorrow we will celebrate Memorial Day with Wendy and Holly with their families. In gratitude we honor our military troops from years past and today. We thank them for their service to our country and to each of us.

As we enjoy our traditional family picnic on Monday, we will miss Nicole and Ashley. Both girls are spending the weekend visiting with their respective friends' families. Ashley is in California meeting Ryan Smith's family and Nicole is in Colorado visiting her friend Jeff Bullock and his family.

When we arrived at Holly's house, Reed came out and approached us with a super soaker. Sadie then placed her self in front of Grandpa in a wide stance with her arms spread out and said to Reed, "Don't squirt my grandpa." She was so cute.

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Mother's Day Week

Last Sunday Mom had her day with cards, presents, and pampering on Mother's Day. We loved having Wendy and Steve and Amie, Holly and Dave, Ryan, Molly, Michael, Reed, and Sadie come join us for dinner. Dad made pork tenderloin and roasted potatoes and Nicole helped make crepes for dessert. We wished Brett, Lisa, and Sara could have been here, too but they each called and we were happy to hear their voices, if not their presence.

The week ended with Dad's birthday who was kind of hard to pamper since he insisted his birthday should be "just like any other day" and worked hard cleaning the garage and in the yard mowing, trimming, weeding, running over to Home Depot, and then over at Wendy's and Steve's helping finish their basement. Dad declined the offer of a GPS system for now and said the only gift he wanted a bucket hat for working outside. We ended the day with a nice dinner -- steaks and buffalo burger from the grill, potato salad, and green salad and then relaxed in the evening and watched the "Nancy Drew" DVD. On Sunday we celebrated Dad and Molly's birthday together with the classic pineapple birthday cake and ice cream with Wendy's and Holly's families.

During the week we hosted two of members of BYU's chamber orchestra. We had two very nice violinists -- Kaitlin from Tuscon, AZ and Julie from Fairbanks, Alaska. Julie was the fantastic violinist in the BYU Concerto concert that Ashley and Nicole played in in March. On Friday night we saw the orchestra perform with Jenny Oaks Baker at the visitor's center by the temple.

The week ahead promises some very exciting things -- Sadie's first ballet recital and Ryan's high school graduation. Nicole will be flying out to Denver to visit Jeff for Memorial Day weekend.

Grandpa is 69 Years Old and Still Just a Kid

Another birthday. If the truth be known, I am only 44 years old, I will admit that I look slightly older than that.

I have been kept young by you children as I have tried to keep up with you. Playing with you is like drinking from the fountain of youth. Now I have grandchildren to keep my young and they are doing their job.

Actually, birthdays are not that big of a deal to me, after all, I've had 69 of them. And I plan to have many more of them. I plan to play with the grandchildren for a good long time.

Today, Sadie gave me a wonderful birthday present. I had just given Reed and Sadie some candy and I asked for my customary hug. Reed said, "we'll give you a group hug," to which Sadie said, "No, I want my hug." It doesn't get much better than that.


Saturday, May 10, 2008

This Week's News from the Old Homestead

These are the headlines from this past week in Johnsonville:
Nicole and Mom got new phones.
Believe it or not, dad is cleaning the garage.
We got our Education Week tickets.

Yes, Dad is cleaning the garage. He asked Mom what she wanted for Mother's Day and Mom said, "A clean garage." It's an idea whose time has come, don't you think?

This week Mom has been fighting writer's block as she drafts her penultimate research paper of her undergraduate career. She is trying to muster something worthwhile to say about "The Dead" by James Joyce and then she will tackle producing some brilliant research about George Eliot. That August deadline for graduation looms threateningly in the near distance.

We had a stake Relief Society service day on Saturday. Among the projects to choose from were gardening and beautifying the city of Sykesville, visiting residents of Harmony House (an assisted care facility), or making quilts for wounded soldiers at Walter Reed. Mom spent a couple of pleasurable and peaceful hours (a lovely break from studying) piecing a flag quilt top and then a morning stitching (and chatting) with other women as we quilted them.

Dad has been busy tending to his tomato plants and trying to outsmart the deer. The repellent du jour is Dial soap -- a bar hangs suspended from each tomato cage.

Nicole started work for Brother Koncurat this week. She and Dad are able to drive to work together and would be able to come together if Dad didn't have to work longer hours. It's nice to have more life in the house as well as an enthusiastic leftovers eater.

Nicole and Mom are very excited about their new phones. Nicole traded up from her first phone -- a graduation present from three years ago. Mom has had hers for maybe eight years (and it was the cheapest one available when she bought it). She asked the salesperson at Verizon to please not laugh when she saw Mom's dinosaur phone. The women responded that no, she wouldn't -- she'd seen many old, old phones in her job. When Mom handed over the old phone the salesperson started laughing and then apologized, saying, "Sorry, I couldn't help it."

And now, a word about Mother's Day from Mom:
I think the best thing I did for each of you was to marry your Dad. You could not have a finer Dad or one who loves you more.
Dad and I love talking about how sweet, how cute, how funny, how smart each of you were as children. Those were wonderful years for us to be together as a growing family and we are sorry that time in our lives went by so quickly. We could not have loved any of you more and we continue to be very proud of you. We pray for you and those perfect grandchildren each day.
More than anything, I hope we will be a family forever -- that there will be no empty chairs around our table in eternity.